This is a slightly older article, but it is a really good example of the idea of differential reinforcement (ie using reward to get more of what you actually want from others and your self).
Have a read!
New York Mag: How Not to Talk to Your Kids
This is a slightly older article, but it is a really good example of the idea of differential reinforcement (ie using reward to get more of what you actually want from others and your self).
Have a read!
New York Mag: How Not to Talk to Your Kids